Wednesday, March 10, 2010

To choose between A & B -dilemma in a youngster’s mind

The best thing to start with is bollywood. Enjoyed the movie today “Athithi kab jaoge”.  Being honest nobody likes athithi but still we say athithi devo bhava:. Here is my question- Should the people of my generation avoid athithi or welcome them.
                                                    Similar situations arise several times where people of my age have to choose between two- Act as you like or act as you should.
                                                   There is a boy and a girl. They love each other and wishing to marry. Isn’t their love is very sufficient condition for them to get married?  Why they are imposed in so many acid test and complex methods & procedures of society? There is a question, who is right- young couple or society?
                                                   Maa said to me never eat anything before you take bath & sacrifice your food (do fast) once a week for the god so he will bring prosperity In your life. I am not staying with my mother. I have a choice- to follow what my mother says to me or enjoy my freedom.
                                                   This is my life. I will drive according to what seem correct to me. I will make my own rules. I own the right to decide for me.

     But you know:- I am scared!

The rules & methods made by the society are the evolution of thousand years.  Am I strong enough or correct enough to decide not to follow them?
                                            Help me to decide!
At the last

   क्यों डरु जिंदगी में क्या होगा ...
    कुछ न होगा तो तजरुबा होगा ..